Oh Infiniband - that's fun stuff to play with. I started out working on storage systems with FDDI which was smoking fast at 100Mbps! You can get to the north side of 950Mbps by using jumbo frames on gig TCP/IP links. That's the thing about iSCSI for storage - you have the overhead of TCP/IP and if the interoperability is more important than performance it's a good solution but it's not always the fastest. I looked quickly and people were claiming of getting about 95Mbps on the Teensy. Looks like you need an ethernet kit which is a ribbon cable, a capacitor and a jack that goes onto a small circuit board. I worry that this might send you down another rabbit hole but maybe it's unavoidable.
I think the advantage of the FTDI is dedicated hardware serial which may or may not help you in this case.
I think the advantage of the FTDI is dedicated hardware serial which may or may not help you in this case.