What was going on with it? Tool wobble?
If you don't have a lathe the best thing to do is to reassemble and then measure runout on the tool end. If you don't have significant runout on the outside of the spindle, you will need to check the inside. Like I said if there are burrs on the inside of the collet taper it will cause runout on the tool. That can be fixed but will require the proper reamer and of course a lathe to do it right.
It is pretty difficult to actually bend a spindle, there are other things that will bend or break before the spindle reaches the amount of force needed to bend. It is a pretty stout chunk of steel. On the round column mills any significant crash will likely rotate the column well before there is any damage to the spindle. The thing that makes them finicky to begin with also makes it pretty difficult to actually hurt them.