Brian, I haven't seen this thread before now, and for that I'm sorry, it's hard to see why we go through the things we go through, but God knows the reasons, Romans 8:28 doesn't say all things are good, but that all things work together for good to those that love God & are called according to His purpose. Yall hang in there & know that He Loves you, I'm blessed by your post's & everyone elses. God is Good! Keep loving & encouraging her, Love truly does change everything! I'll be praying for His will in the trying time for you guys.
In Christ, Dwayne