My 2 cents is that I just got an 80mm (3.15”) R8 integral shank face mill from Glacern to use on a 3HP, 3 phase knee mill. It has 6 inserts.
I read that you said shallow cuts on aluminum…with a 5 or 10 HP mill! In the mere 9 hours of face milling with the above setup, I learned that I can get away with .035” DOC cuts on mild steel, but I am almost positive that this .035” is the upper limit for what the mill above can power. I will never try a deeper DOC. The limitations seem to be (1) rigidity, and (2) power. Good thing you have more HP and presumably more rigidity with your heavier machines.
5” (well, 2-1/2”) is a huge lever.
I would be very interested to hear what your upper limit is using a 5” face mill for aluminum on a 5 or 10 HP knee mill, as well as see pictures of the workholding.