OD grinding, wheel and work spin same direction:
http://www.kanabco.com/vms/other_grinding/other_grinding_06.html
Reason given:
"This so that the surface of the grinding wheel and the surface of the workpiece are moving in opposite directions at the point of contact. This also reduces the possibility of ride-up or jamming that can occur if they were rotating in opposite directions."
NEMES (a hobbyist group) published this in 1958:
http://neme-s.org/Model_Engineer_Files/2996-Grinding Rotation & Dressing.pdf
They agree, but give different reasons. Mostly for coolant and grinding sludge control. They also allow for the opposite, and have no serious objections other than making a mess by throwing coolant and grit upward.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cylindrical_grinder
Pretty much agrees that the work should run against the wheel in the opposite direction, reason given is smoother work and less chance of jam-up.
I think if I kept looking, I could find more sources that give either answer, and give some of the same, and some different reasons.
Thank you Tony, You have confirmed my findings.
These articles say exactly the same thing as all the rest. The grinder and lathe run in opposite directions ( the instances showing them in the same direction has the grinding wheel to the rear of the work which is the same as opposite direction when the wheel is in front) They at least give a reason. So.... I will follow the directions when I experiment with my grinder after finishing it.