Ahh, that makes sense. How do you know how tight they should be? How much resistance should it have?
I have the same lathe. I don’t have a cross slide lock, and I have never had to put a clamp on to make it hold. There is something goofy going on there. The gib has a number of small adjusting screws spaced along the slide (You could just crank one in tight as a lock). There is probably some preference - I like minimal resistance and a very slight clearance. Vibration/chatter isn’t good, the dials will move - that isn’t really a problem with the lathe itself. If there is that much vibration there is a problem with the setup.
Of course it needs to be clean and oiled. I used to always struggle to get the oil onto the cross slide (the oil fittings are on the side, the access is not great and it takes a bit of pressure. I finally broke down and bought a proper oiling gun (Reilang) - fantastic, wish I’d gotten it years earlier. I’m sure there are cheaper oiling tools, but anything that doesn’t work is going to be more expensive in the long run.
Vibes boring that cylinder? Sometimes a job will set up a vibration - you just have to play around and work it out. Try a larger BB, pull the bar in as short as possible, use a solid carbide bar, perhaps a smaller radius tool, more back rake, less back rake, set the tool slightly above center (the tool is going to deflect under load, if you have it set a few thou high then as it deflects the depth of cut decreases a little bit, if you are on center then the cut increases as the tool deflects), put a rubber strap around the cylinder, try a faster feed, perhaps a slower spindle speed (one thing I don’t really like about our lathe is that the slowest speed is 45rpm - some jobs it helps if you can slow right down - but I believe you have a vfd, so that may help). Look at ways to hold the cylinder more securely (at least change to the 4J chuck).
Let us know how you make out. David