My concern regarding the Covid vaccine is whether I can have it at all.
I am allergic to the flu shot, so haven't had one in a number of years, which bums me out. Not sure if the Covid vaccine will fall under the same "family" as the flu shot.
The last time I saw my doctor he wanted to know if I wanted a flu shot. I asked him if he was itching to practice his tracheotomy skills?! "Oh, nevermind".
Along with common cold, various influenzas, the virus(s) have a corona nature. The flu vaccines are intended to "infect", and provoke the generation of antibodies, and the making of cells in the plasma that will attack and destroy a virus, basically by recognizing them, attaching to them, and having in effect a "suicide signal" marking the combination to be turned into body waste material.
The vaccines have their working parts stripped out, attenuated, and weakened such that they can't make you ill with the original flu, but may have fluids, preservatives, and other stuffs to aid delivery into the blood. One of these could well be the trigger for your allergy. I think there are ways to check for allergy by testing against a small blood sample, without direct contact to the person.
I recognize the risk you run, and the awful choice, but it is worth saying that while the new vaccines are made to work against a virus with similar features (it's a corona shape), there is reasonable chance that the vaccine substances are very different, and might reasonably not cause an allergic response. For you, it might use up two vaccines. One to check allergy, and one the real deal.
Can you not check out sensitivity from a little test surface scratch, like they do to identify other substance allergies?