Similar rural internet story here, with a twist.
Moved to WA a couple of decades ago. The choice was dial-up modem (0.056 MBPS!) or Hughes Net. We did dial-up for short while but then put in Hughes Net. Come to find out, it does not work with VPN, which is what I needed to get to work from home. I had called Century link to ask about DSL and they said it was not available in my area.
A year later I was having land-line issues and the technician that came out happened to mention that I should dump Hughes and get ISDN, which was available (and had been for years). Because I needed VPN to work, even slowly, I went to ISDN. It was reliable and worked very well, as long as there was no great hurry for downloads. This was before Netflix and other streaming became much of a thing.
A couple of years later I happened to run into a local Century Link technician at a neighborhood picnic. We talked a bit and I asked if it was possible to bridge 2 x ISDN lines together. He said "ISDN? Why would you be using that? Just get DSL, it has been available out here for years." So, the next day I called CL again. Same response. "Not available at your address." I persisted, dropped the technician's name and asked for them to get in touch. Long story short, I had DSL one week later. I could have had it from the start. Their database is just not up to date on our area. Over the last 15 years I've coached several new neighbors through the "DSL getting process". They still have not updated their database to this day.
So, DSL has been very reliable here. Once, a few years ago I started having connection issues and they quickly changed our connection over to a new pair of wires because it tested out better than the wires we were on. At that point the technician put in an order to remove any sort of throttling. My speed is now "as fast as it can go" given the line length and signal quality. It worked out to be about 12 MBPS. Reasonable for the long line we are on. Slow by "high speed internet" standards.
So, my CL experience has been mixed. Having run into a great local tech., armed with his cell number, we lucked out. I am toying with trying Starlink. I could use enough bandwidth for a Netflix stream while my wife is on Zoom etc. Right now, it is limited one bandwidth hog at a time.
To be continued... Join our story next year as I break out the chain saw to take out the tallest trees so I can "see" the satellites better...