Unfortunately my dad was diagnosed with dementia a year or so ago so I'm sure it is. But you do bring up an interesting thing about the bladder thing because he was having issues but I think they have been taken care of. The Dr. has taken his driving priveleages also. I fear my mom may be in danger if they stay in this secluded place that is basically cutoff to everybody when it snows and the can't get in or out for weeks. I can't take any chances and my moms health is not the best both physical & mental. My dad will ask the exact same questions 8 or 10 times in a 5 minute period sometimes. This needs to be done, trust me I don't want to do it but I have to. My dad does nothing with his tools anymore, he just goes in his shop and looks at things, sleeps or hides things. He thinks someone has taken things but they have not. I need to get my mom away by herself to talk to her about what she wants to do wth the tools and stuff in his shop, she has mentioned taking them to an auction. They are not hurting for money as they have a sizeable nest egg and their home is paid for. I would like to keep a lot of his tools and other stuff for a few reasons. They are useable to me, there is some attachment to some of them as he's either had them from when I was a teen or once actually belonged to me when I owned my cabinet shop, I would like to be surounded by things my dad owned, used or made.
I do wish you were right but time is not on my side or theirs to further check into this. If I don't handle it a stranger will. It breaks my heart it really does.